Re: Open response to Stephen CowellYou have some good points but maybe you could tone it down sometimes.
A curmudgeon's reputation for malevolence is undeserved. They're
neither warped nor evil at heart. They don't hate mankind, just mankind's
absurdities. They're just as sensitive and soft-hearted as the next guy, but
they hide their vulnerability beneath a crust of misanthropy. They ease the
pain by turning hurt into humor. . . . . . They attack maudlinism because
it devalues genuine sentiment. . . . . . Nature, having failed to equip
them with a servicable denial mechanism, has endowed them with astute
perception and sly wit.
Curmudgeons are mockers and debunkers whose bitterness is a symptom
rather than a disease. They can't compromise their standards and can't
manage the suspension of disbelief necessary for feigned cheerfulness. Their
awareness is a curse.
Perhaps curmudgeons have gotten a bad rap in the same way that the
messenger is blamed for the message: They have the temerity to comment on
the human condition without apology. They not only refuse to applaud
mediocrity, they howl it down with morose glee. Their versions of the truth
unsettle us, and we hold it against them, even though they soften it with
humor.
- JON WINOKUR
Maj6th
Stephen Cowell" <scowell@sbcglobal,net > wrote in message
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> "Maj6th" <Maj6th@dslextreme,com > wrote in message
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>> Open response to Stephen Cowell;
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>> The more I think about your response to my request for help, the more
>> disappointed and dismayed I am in your response.
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> Twinged you a little, eh? It was meant to...
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>> I thought the objective of these chat rooms was to share knowledge and
>> aid to others with less knowledge, regardless of their level of
>> expertise.
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> Buddy, the chat rooms are down the hall. This Is Usenet.
> Noobs get twinged. Grow some skin, and google around,
> read the group, read some websites about your inquiry or
> I guarantee, *especially* in an alt.heirarchy.group, that
> you will get called for intellectual laziness, normally in the
> form of a 'flame'. It's part of what makes these places
> wild-and-wooly... we mostly like it like that.
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>> That is why I posed the question here. I didn't really expect to be
>> denigrated or to be called "stupid" or to be advised to take my amp to a
>> tech.
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> You "didn't really expect to...be advised to take my amp
> to a tech"? Really? *Really*-really? Forgive my incredulity...
> by now, you should have noticed that all the 'helpful' folks
> advocated the same thing.
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>>I wanted sincere advice from experienced and knowledgeable people on the
>>direction to explore.
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> Folk more experienced than me told you that if you simply pop tubes
> in, you are going to get non-optimum results.
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> We deal with folks whose amps are *dead*... you just want
> better sound, without having to do any work. This Gets Flamed...
> you want me to treat you any differently?
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>> If I asked a question about my computer's operation on a Microsoft chat
>> room I would receive a myriad of answers to my query.
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> ... and any anwers that dared speak truth to suckage of Vista,
> etc would be deleted. Truth comes from Reality, not a
> moderated version of same.
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>> I know I wouldn't have been called names and told (or intimated) I was to
>> "cheap" to take it and have it fixed at a repair facility.
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> Welcome to Usenet... I do regret the use of 'stupid'... it was
> probably over the top. Next time I'll use 'ignorant', which
> describes your situation more aptly.
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>> Your reply spoke volumes about your arrogance, inflated sense of
>> self-importance, and common civility. Perhaps you noticed how quickly
>> others were to respond with helpful tips and advice? You are someone I
>> wouldn't care to know. I would never invite you to my home to share a
>> bottle of wine and a dinner, I'm not sure your head would fit through my
>> front door.
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> I play one of the curmudgeons around here... so be it.
> I call 'em as I see 'em... you came here looking for a
> magical solution, with no background info on your
> situation. I flamed you as I would any newb... lightly.
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