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Reply from: PeterLucas
Date: 12 May 2008, 03:41
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

Wayne Boatwright <wayneboatwright@arizona.usa,com > wrote in
news:Xns9A9BBB1254D79wayneboatwrightatari@69.28.173.184:

> On Sun 11 May 2008 06:04:36p, PeterLucas told us...
>
>> Wayne Boatwright <wayneboatwright@arizona.usa,com > wrote in
>> news:Xns9A9B8AA6535F9wayneboatwrightatari@69.28.173.184:
>>
>>
>>>> I've never celebrated m's or f's days since I 'left' home at the
>>>> age of 15.
>>>
>>> I suppose it depends greatly upon the terms under which you left.
>>>
>>
>>
>> That it does.
>>
>>
>
> I understand. My dad left home at 13. How he managed to survive, put
> himself through the rest of his schooling and end of with two
> doctorates still amazes me.
>


I haven't got two doctorates, but I certainly got to where I wanted to
go. And once I left, I never went back.

Which is something that ticks me off about these younger generations and
the fact that they want a revolving door on their parents home so that
they can run back then whenever the real world gets too hard for them.
They 'grow up' with the attitude of never having to try real hard at
anything, because there's always an 'out', an escape clause.

Having said that, I know of several 40odd year olds still living at home
with the parents.

--
Peter Lucas
Brisbane
Australia

You will travel through the valley of rejection;
you will reside in the land of morning mists...and you will find your
home,
though it will not be where you left it.

Reply from: Steve Pope
Date: 12 May 2008, 05:06
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

PeterLucas <PeterLucas@brissie,com > wrote:

>I haven't got two doctorates, but I certainly got to where I wanted to
>go. And once I left, I never went back.
>
>Which is something that ticks me off about these younger generations and
>the fact that they want a revolving door on their parents home so that
>they can run back then whenever the real world gets too hard for them.
>They 'grow up' with the attitude of never having to try real hard at
>anything, because there's always an 'out', an escape clause.

There was actually a case in California where a guy around
45 or 50 years old successfully sued his parents for financial
support, because the law was written in such a way that the
parents' obligation to support their kids didn't necessarily
end at age 18.

I may be able to dig up the link if anyone is interested.

Steve

Reply from: Wayne Boatwright
Date: 12 May 2008, 05:12
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

On Sun 11 May 2008 08:06:53p, Steve Pope told us...

> PeterLucas <PeterLucas@brissie,com > wrote:
>
>>I haven't got two doctorates, but I certainly got to where I wanted to
>>go. And once I left, I never went back.
>>
>>Which is something that ticks me off about these younger generations and
>>the fact that they want a revolving door on their parents home so that
>>they can run back then whenever the real world gets too hard for them.
>>They 'grow up' with the attitude of never having to try real hard at
>>anything, because there's always an 'out', an escape clause.
>
> There was actually a case in California where a guy around
> 45 or 50 years old successfully sued his parents for financial
> support, because the law was written in such a way that the
> parents' obligation to support their kids didn't necessarily
> end at age 18.
>
> I may be able to dig up the link if anyone is interested.
>
> Steve
>

Not that I need it or would even think of doing it, but both of my parents
have passed on, my dad in 1990 and my mom in 1998.

--
Wayne Boatwright
-------------------------------------------
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-------------------------------------------
Today is: Mother's Day, Pentecost
Countdown till Memorial Day
2wks 3hrs 50mins
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And he disappeared in a puff of logic.
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Reply from: PeterLucas
Date: 12 May 2008, 05:17
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

spope33@speedymail.org (Steve Pope) wrote in news:g08c8d$taj$1
@blue.rahul,net :

> PeterLucas <PeterLucas@brissie,com > wrote:
>
>>I haven't got two doctorates, but I certainly got to where I wanted to
>>go. And once I left, I never went back.
>>
>>Which is something that ticks me off about these younger generations
and
>>the fact that they want a revolving door on their parents home so that
>>they can run back then whenever the real world gets too hard for them.
>>They 'grow up' with the attitude of never having to try real hard at
>>anything, because there's always an 'out', an escape clause.
>
> There was actually a case in California where a guy around
> 45 or 50 years old successfully sued his parents for financial
> support, because the law was written in such a way that the
> parents' obligation to support their kids didn't necessarily
> end at age 18.
>
> I may be able to dig up the link if anyone is interested.
>
> Steve
>



Urgh!! No thanks. What a pathetic piece of work that person must have
been.


--
Peter Lucas
Brisbane
Australia

You will travel through the valley of rejection;
you will reside in the land of morning mists...and you will find your
home,
though it will not be where you left it.

Reply from: Goomba38
Date: 12 May 2008, 06:10
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

Steve Pope wrote:

> There was actually a case in California where a guy around
> 45 or 50 years old successfully sued his parents for financial
> support, because the law was written in such a way that the
> parents' obligation to support their kids didn't necessarily
> end at age 18.
>
> I may be able to dig up the link if anyone is interested.
>
> Steve

I thought that happened in Italy, where it isn't uncommon for kids to
live at home until marriage because of higher housing costs, etc?

The man was in his 30's I believe?

Reply from: Golden One
Date: 12 May 2008, 07:23
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

On May 12, 9:41 am, PeterLucas <PeterLu...@brissie,com > wrote:
> Wayne Boatwright <wayneboatwri...@arizona.usa,com > wrote innews:Xns9A9BBB1254D79wayneboatwrightatari@69.28.173.184:
>
>
>
>
>
> > On Sun 11 May 2008 06:04:36p, PeterLucas told us...
>
> >> Wayne Boatwright <wayneboatwri...@arizona.usa,com > wrote in
> >>news:Xns9A9B8AA6535F9wayneboatwrightatari@69.28.173.184:
>
> >>>> I've never celebrated m's or f's days since I 'left' home at the
> >>>> age of 15.
>
> >>> I suppose it depends greatly upon the terms under which you left.  
>
> >> That it does.
>
> > I understand.  My dad left home at 13.  How he managed to survive, put
> > himself through the rest of his schooling and end of with two
> > doctorates still amazes me.
>
> I haven't got two doctorates, but I certainly got to where I wanted to
> go. And once I left, I never went back.
>
> Which is something that ticks me off about these younger generations and
> the fact that they want a revolving door on their parents home so that
> they can run back then whenever the real world gets too hard for them.
> They 'grow up' with the attitude of never having to try real hard at
> anything, because there's always an 'out', an escape clause.
>
> Having said that, I know of several 40odd year olds still living at home
> with the parents.

Our eldest sone is 30 and lives with us. However, he has two boys (8 &
9). Their mother took to drugs and turned into a lunatic (I always
reckoned she was anyway) and has had nothing to do with them since the
eldest was 2.

Having them with us just works better for the children and allows
their father to have some kind of a life beyond just working and
looking after children. Anyway, they are MY children now ;-)

JB

>
> --
> Peter Lucas
> Brisbane
> Australia
>
> You will travel through the valley of rejection;
> you will reside in the land of morning mists...and you will find your
> home,
> though it will not be where you left it.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -


Reply from: PeterLucas
Date: 12 May 2008, 07:37
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

Golden One <jpburns@westnet,com .au> wrote in
news:e462b129-d662-44e9-961c-aa4b719cb127@h1g2000prh.googlegroups,com :


>>
>> I haven't got two doctorates, but I certainly got to where I wanted
>> to go. And once I left, I never went back.
>>
>> Which is something that ticks me off about these younger generations
>> and the fact that they want a revolving door on their parents home so
>> that they can run back then whenever the real world gets too hard for
>> them. They 'grow up' with the attitude of never having to try real
>> hard at anything, because there's always an 'out', an escape clause.
>>
>> Having said that, I know of several 40odd year olds still living at
>> home with the parents.
>
> Our eldest sone is 30 and lives with us. However, he has two boys (8 &
> 9). Their mother took to drugs and turned into a lunatic (I always
> reckoned she was anyway) and has had nothing to do with them since the
> eldest was 2.
>
> Having them with us just works better for the children and allows
> their father to have some kind of a life beyond just working and
> looking after children. Anyway, they are MY children now ;-)
>


If you're OK with it, that's all well and good. Most parents are put into a
corner over it, and feel obligated to take their adult children back in
with them.

Where abouts in Oz are you?


--
Peter Lucas
Brisbane
Australia


Life is a walk of death. Each day we walk hand in hand with death, and
nothing can guarantee our living one more day.
Treat every breath as the last, every heart beat, every moonrise, and every
smile.
For who can say they won't be... Ride the Wind's, and where
ever they take you, make it better, that is the way of the
warrior.

Reply from: Golden One
Date: 13 May 2008, 07:36
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

On May 12, 1:37 pm, PeterLucas <PeterLu...@brissie,com > wrote:
> Golden One <jpbu...@westnet,com .au> wrote innews:e462b129-d662-44e9-961c-aa4b719cb127@h1g2000prh.googlegroups,com :
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> >> I haven't got two doctorates, but I certainly got to where I wanted
> >> to go. And once I left, I never went back.
>
> >> Which is something that ticks me off about these younger generations
> >> and the fact that they want a revolving door on their parents home so
> >> that they can run back then whenever the real world gets too hard for
> >> them. They 'grow up' with the attitude of never having to try real
> >> hard at anything, because there's always an 'out', an escape clause.
>
> >> Having said that, I know of several 40odd year olds still living at
> >> home with the parents.
>
> > Our eldest sone is 30 and lives with us. However, he has two boys (8 &
> > 9). Their mother took to drugs and turned into a lunatic (I always
> > reckoned she was anyway) and has had nothing to do with them since the
> > eldest was 2.
>
> > Having them with us just works better for the children and allows
> > their father to have some kind of a life beyond just working and
> > looking after children. Anyway, they are MY children now ;-)
>
> If you're OK with it, that's all well and good. Most parents are put into a
> corner over it, and feel obligated to take their adult children back in
> with them.
>
> Where abouts in Oz are you?

Perth, Western Australia. We live in a semi-rural area about 40
minutes from the CBD.

JB

>
> --
> Peter Lucas
> Brisbane
> Australia
>
> Life is a walk of death. Each day we walk hand in hand with death, and
> nothing can guarantee our living one more day.
> Treat every breath as the last, every heart beat, every moonrise, and every
> smile.
> For who can say they won't be... Ride the Wind's, and where
> ever they take you, make it better, that is the way of the
> warrior.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -


Reply from: PeterLucas
Date: 13 May 2008, 08:40
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

Golden One <jpburns@westnet,com .au> wrote in
news:9c6163c7-30eb-4a9f-95c5-097039084a37@l17g2000pri.googlegroups,com :


>>
>> Where abouts in Oz are you?
>
> Perth, Western Australia. We live in a semi-rural area about 40
> minutes from the CBD.
>
> JB



I used to live at Duncraig.


--
Peter Lucas
Brisbane
Australia


The path of a warrior never deviating,
one has to become not just a part of nature
but a force of nature,
acting in accordance with the laws of the universe.
(Getsumei No Michi, the Moonlit Path)

Reply from: Golden One
Date: 13 May 2008, 09:06
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

On May 13, 2:40 pm, PeterLucas <PeterLu...@brissie,com > wrote:
> Golden One <jpbu...@westnet,com .au> wrote innews:9c6163c7-30eb-4a9f-95c5-097039084a37@l17g2000pri.googlegroups,com :
>
>
>
> >> Where abouts in Oz are you?
>
> > Perth, Western Australia. We live in a semi-rural area about 40
> > minutes from the CBD.
>
> > JB
>
> I used to live at Duncraig.

We are in Byford. South of the river rather than north. Fairly close
to Rockingham.

JB

>
> --
> Peter Lucas                            
> Brisbane                                
> Australia  
>
> The path of a warrior never deviating,
> one has to become not just a part of nature            
> but a force of nature,
> acting in accordance with the laws of the universe.
> (Getsumei No Michi, the Moonlit Path)


Reply from: PeterLucas
Date: 13 May 2008, 17:15
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

Golden One <jpburns@westnet,com .au> wrote in
news:10717c1e-4700-4709-9712-1102e7e7a974@p25g2000pri.googlegroups,com :

> On May 13, 2:40 pm, PeterLucas <PeterLu...@brissie,com > wrote:
>> Golden One <jpbu...@westnet,com .au> wrote
>> innews:9c6163c7-30eb-4a9f-95c5-0
> 97039084a37@l17g2000pri.googlegroups,com :
>>
>>
>>
>> >> Where abouts in Oz are you?
>>
>> > Perth, Western Australia. We live in a semi-rural area about 40
>> > minutes from the CBD.
>>
>> > JB
>>
>> I used to live at Duncraig.
>
> We are in Byford. South of the river rather than north. Fairly close
> to Rockingham.
>



Ahhhhhh, down in banjo country :-)


It's a nice enough place (I actually considered living there!!) but it's
on the other side of the world to the rest of Oz.

And besides which....... it's full of Poms and runaway Rhodesians.


--
Peter Lucas
Brisbane
Australia


The path of a warrior never deviating,
one has to become not just a part of nature
but a force of nature,
acting in accordance with the laws of the universe.
(Getsumei No Michi, the Moonlit Path)

Reply from: Golden One
Date: 14 May 2008, 04:53
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

On May 13, 11:15 pm, PeterLucas <PeterLu...@brissie,com > wrote:
> Golden One <jpbu...@westnet,com .au> wrote innews:10717c1e-4700-4709-9712-1102e7e7a974@p25g2000pri.googlegroups,com :
>
>
>
>
>
> > On May 13, 2:40 pm, PeterLucas <PeterLu...@brissie,com > wrote:
> >> Golden One <jpbu...@westnet,com .au> wrote
> >> innews:9c6163c7-30eb-4a9f-95c5-0
> > 97039084...@l17g2000pri.googlegroups,com :
>
> >> >> Where abouts in Oz are you?
>
> >> > Perth, Western Australia. We live in a semi-rural area about 40
> >> > minutes from the CBD.
>
> >> > JB
>
> >> I used to live at Duncraig.
>
> > We are in Byford. South of the river rather than north. Fairly close
> > to Rockingham.
>
> Ahhhhhh, down in banjo country :-)

Dede doing doing doing doing

When I retire I plan on sitting on the front porch in a rocking chair
holding a shotgun. If that doesn't scare off the religious callers the
blue heeler will!

>
> It's a nice enough place (I actually considered living there!!) but it's
> on the other side of the world to the rest of Oz.

Sshh, don't tell anyone. That's the way we like it.

JB



>
> And besides which....... it's full of Poms and runaway Rhodesians.
>
> --
> Peter Lucas                            
> Brisbane                                
> Australia  
>
> The path of a warrior never deviating,
> one has to become not just a part of nature            
> but a force of nature,
> acting in accordance with the laws of the universe.
> (Getsumei No Michi, the Moonlit Path)- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -


Reply from: PeterLucas
Date: 14 May 2008, 05:21
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

Golden One <jpburns@westnet,com .au> wrote in
news:648467c1-171d-4ea8-b9cf-21355d209648@s33g2000pri.googlegroups,com :


>>
>> >> I used to live at Duncraig.
>>
>> > We are in Byford. South of the river rather than north. Fairly
>> > close to Rockingham.



Right next door to Casuarina.... no wonder you need a shotgun :-)



>>
>> Ahhhhhh, down in banjo country :-)
>
> Dede doing doing doing doing
>
> When I retire I plan on sitting on the front porch in a rocking chair
> holding a shotgun. If that doesn't scare off the religious callers the
> blue heeler will!


LOL!! Do what I did. Open the door semi-naked, covered in blood, holding
a sharp knife and say "Come in, come in!! We're just performing a
sacrifice out the back, you're more than welcome to come and watch!!"

They never came back after that...... don't know why!!

(I was butchering a rather large and very fresh hunk of meat in the
kitchen. Rather bloody work it was too.)


>
>>
>> It's a nice enough place (I actually considered living there!!) but
>> it's on the other side of the world to the rest of Oz.
>
> Sshh, don't tell anyone. That's the way we like it.
>



It's all yours!!


--
Peter Lucas
Brisbane
Australia


The path of a warrior never deviating,
one has to become not just a part of nature
but a force of nature,
acting in accordance with the laws of the universe.
(Getsumei No Michi, the Moonlit Path)

Reply from: Wayne Boatwright
Date: 12 May 2008, 09:15
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

On Sun 11 May 2008 10:23:34p, Golden One told us...

> On May 12, 9:41 am, PeterLucas <PeterLu...@brissie,com > wrote:
>> Wayne Boatwright <wayneboatwri...@arizona.usa,com > wrote
innews:Xns9A9BBB1
>> 254D79wayneboatwrightatari@69.28.173.184:
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> > On Sun 11 May 2008 06:04:36p, PeterLucas told us...
>>
>> >> Wayne Boatwright <wayneboatwri...@arizona.usa,com > wrote in
>> >> news:Xns9A9B8AA6535F9wayneboatwrightatari@69.28.173.184:
>>
>> >>>> I've never celebrated m's or f's days since I 'left' home at the
age
>> >>>> of 15.
>>
>> >>> I suppose it depends greatly upon the terms under which you left.  
>>
>> >> That it does.
>>
>> > I understand.  My dad left home at 13.  How he managed to survive, p
ut
>> > himself through the rest of his schooling and end of with two
doctorates
>> > still amazes me.
>>
>> I haven't got two doctorates, but I certainly got to where I wanted to
>> go. And once I left, I never went back.
>>
>> Which is something that ticks me off about these younger generations and
>> the fact that they want a revolving door on their parents home so that
>> they can run back then whenever the real world gets too hard for them.
>> They 'grow up' with the attitude of never having to try real hard at
>> anything, because there's always an 'out', an escape clause.
>>
>> Having said that, I know of several 40odd year olds still living at home
>> with the parents.
>
> Our eldest sone is 30 and lives with us. However, he has two boys (8 &
> 9). Their mother took to drugs and turned into a lunatic (I always
> reckoned she was anyway) and has had nothing to do with them since the
> eldest was 2.

Under the circumstances, your son and grandsons are far better off to be
living in a loving and nurturing home.

>
> Having them with us just works better for the children and allows
> their father to have some kind of a life beyond just working and
> looking after children. Anyway, they are MY children now ;-)

You are a very kind and caring mother and grandmother. I think that's
wonderful!

> JB
>

--
Wayne Boatwright
-------------------------------------------
Monday, 05(V)/12(XII)/08(MMVIII)
-------------------------------------------
Countdown till Memorial Day
1wks 6dys 23hrs 50mins
-------------------------------------------
What this country needs is a good
five-cent microcomputer.
-------------------------------------------


Reply from: Golden One
Date: 12 May 2008, 10:09
Re: All You Wonderful Mothers in RFC

On May 12, 3:15 pm, Wayne Boatwright <wayneboatwri...@arizona.usa,com >
wrote:
> On Sun 11 May 2008 10:23:34p, Golden One told us...
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> > On May 12, 9:41 am, PeterLucas <PeterLu...@brissie,com > wrote:
> >> Wayne Boatwright <wayneboatwri...@arizona.usa,com > wrote
> innews:Xns9A9BBB1
> >> 254D79wayneboatwrightat...@69.28.173.184:
>
> >> > On Sun 11 May 2008 06:04:36p, PeterLucas told us...
>
> >> >> Wayne Boatwright <wayneboatwri...@arizona.usa,com > wrote in
> >> >>news:Xns9A9B8AA6535F9wayneboatwrightatari@69.28.173.184:
>
> >> >>>> I've never celebrated m's or f's days since I 'left' home at the
> age
> >> >>>> of 15.
>
> >> >>> I suppose it depends greatly upon the terms under which you left.  
>
> >> >> That it does.
>
> >> > I understand.  My dad left home at 13.  How he managed to survive, p
> ut
> >> > himself through the rest of his schooling and end of with two
> doctorates
> >> > still amazes me.
>
> >> I haven't got two doctorates, but I certainly got to where I wanted to
> >> go. And once I left, I never went back.
>
> >> Which is something that ticks me off about these younger generations and
> >> the fact that they want a revolving door on their parents home so that
> >> they can run back then whenever the real world gets too hard for them.
> >> They 'grow up' with the attitude of never having to try real hard at
> >> anything, because there's always an 'out', an escape clause.
>
> >> Having said that, I know of several 40odd year olds still living at home
> >> with the parents.
>
> > Our eldest sone is 30 and lives with us. However, he has two boys (8 &
> > 9). Their mother took to drugs and turned into a lunatic (I always
> > reckoned she was anyway) and has had nothing to do with them since the
> > eldest was 2.
>
> Under the circumstances, your son and grandsons are far better off to be
> living in a loving and nurturing home.
>
>
>
> > Having them with us just works better for the children and allows
> > their father to have some kind of a life beyond just working and
> > looking after children. Anyway, they are MY children now ;-)
>
> You are a very kind and caring mother and grandmother.  I think that's
> wonderful!

I just love having them at home with us. It is amazing how much better
I am at the mother thing, second time around!

JB

>
> > JB
>
> --
>              Wayne Boatwright            
> -------------------------------------------
>      Monday, 05(V)/12(XII)/08(MMVIII)
> -------------------------------------------
>         Countdown till Memorial Day        
>           1wks 6dys 23hrs 50mins          
> -------------------------------------------
>      What this country needs is a good    
>          five-cent microcomputer.        
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>
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